寂寞是種流行病
寂寞是一種人人都得過的流行病，不僅僅是孤獨(dú)無依的老人，不僅僅是沒有玩伴的孩子，寂寞的印記其實(shí)在我們每個(gè)人身上都能找到。
賈君鵬，你媽媽喊你回家——很平常的一句話，卻成了今年一個(gè)熱門而流行的網(wǎng)絡(luò)語。當(dāng)初，僅僅是那些玩游戲的人的無聊之作，后來卻演變成無數(shù)網(wǎng)民參與的網(wǎng)絡(luò)事件。寂寞嗎？很寂寞。寂寞了才會(huì)沉迷游戲，寂寞了才會(huì)參與那些其實(shí)很無聊的網(wǎng)絡(luò)事件。寂寞的網(wǎng)民們，寂寞的宅男宅女們，他們的時(shí)間和精力需要發(fā)泄的地方呀。
今天，你偷菜了嗎？很簡(jiǎn)單的一句話，卻成了風(fēng)靡辦公室的網(wǎng)絡(luò)游戲。游戲畢竟是游戲，得花時(shí)間和精力。只因?yàn)槟慵拍�，你要隨大流，參與到這種大家都玩的游戲當(dāng)中。如果你不玩，你往往會(huì)因?yàn)闆]共同語言而陷入難以自拔的寂寞當(dāng)中。我的一個(gè)朋友本來覺得在網(wǎng)絡(luò)上種菜偷菜挺無聊的，但他最終還是去偷菜了，現(xiàn)實(shí)的寂寞需要找到一種排遣，他發(fā)現(xiàn)在偷菜的人群里原來很熱鬧。
寂寞本來是一個(gè)人的，卻常常演變成一群人的狂歡。所以年輕的男男女女們才會(huì)在繁重的工作之余，三五成群，結(jié)伴去K歌，結(jié)伴去酒吧。通宵算什么，反正一個(gè)人在家也是寂寞。寂寞會(huì)生長(zhǎng)啊，越長(zhǎng)越大，還會(huì)突然襲擊。有時(shí)候，你在熱鬧的人群中，你突然就感覺到了寂寞，這種寂寞最寂寞。
很多時(shí)候，寂寞的我們怕一個(gè)人待著，當(dāng)自己一個(gè)人的時(shí)候，就非得找個(gè)伴嗎？其實(shí)我們應(yīng)該學(xué)會(huì)和自己相處。很多時(shí)候，一個(gè)人也可以不寂寞，而和別人在一起卻很寂寞。很多寂寞其實(shí)都是可以忍受或排遣的，我們可以看看書，可以到大自然中走走，可以聽聽音樂，可以看看經(jīng)典電影……寂寞是一種人人都得過的流行病，不要害怕，也不要難過，重要的是我們?cè)趺磳?duì)待寂寞，讓寂寞的自己充實(shí)起來。
Get A Through Understanding Of Oneself 徹悟自己
In all one’s lifetime it is oneself that one spends the most time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that one has the least understanding of.
When you are going upwards in life you tend to overestimate yourself. It seems that everything you seek for is within your reach; luck and opportunities will come your way and you are overjoyed that they constitute part of your worth. When you are going downhill you tend to underestimate yourself, mistaking difficulties and adversities for your own incompetence. It’s likely that you think it wise for yourself to know our place and stay aloof from worldly wearing a mask of cowardice, behind which the flow of sap in your life will be retarded.
To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to gain a correct view of oneself and be a sober realist—aware of both one’s strength and shortage. You may look forward hopefully to the future but be sure not to expect too much, for ideals can never be fully realized. You may be courageous to meet challenges but it should be clear to you where to direct your efforts. That’s to way so long as you have a perfect knowledge of yourself there won’t be difficulties you can’t overcome, or obstacles you can’t surmount.
To get a thorough understanding of oneself needs self-appreciation. Whether you liken yourself to a towering tree or a blade of grass, whether you think you are a high mountain or a small stone, you represent a state of nature that has its own value. If you earnestly admire yourself you’ll have a real sense of self-appreciation, which will give you confidence. As soon as you gain full confidence in yourself you’ll be enabled to fight and overcome any adversity.
To get a thorough understanding of oneself also requires doing oneself a favor when it’s needed. In time of anger, do yourself a favor by giving vent to it in a quiet place so that you won’t be hurt by its flames; in time of sadness, do yourself a favor by sharing
it with your friends so as to change a gloomy mood into a cheerful one; in time of tiredness, do yourself a favor by getting a good sleep or taking some tonic. Show yourself loving concern about your health and daily life. As you are aware, what a person physically has is but a human body that’s vulnerable when exposed to the elements. So if you fall ill, it’s up to you to take a good care of yourself. Unless you know perfectly well when and how to do yourself a favor, you won’t be confident and ready enough to resist the attack of illness.
To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to get a full control of one’s life. Then one will find one’s life full of color and flavor.
人生在世，和“自己”相處最多，打交道最多，但是往往悟不透“自己”。
人在走上坡路時(shí)，往往把自己估計(jì)得過高，似乎一切所求的東西都唾手可得，甚至把運(yùn)氣和機(jī)遇也看做自己身價(jià)的一部分而喜不自勝。人在不得意時(shí)，又往往把自己估計(jì)過低，把困難和不利也看作自己的無能，以至把安分守己、與世無爭(zhēng)誤認(rèn)為有自知之明，而實(shí)際上往往被怯懦的面具窒息了自己鮮活的生命。
悟透自己，就是正確認(rèn)識(shí)自己，也就是說要做一個(gè)冷靜的現(xiàn)實(shí)主義者，既知道自己的優(yōu)勢(shì)，也知道自己的不足。我們可以憧憬人生，但期望值不能過高。因?yàn)樵诂F(xiàn)實(shí)中，理想總是會(huì)打折扣的。可以迎接挑戰(zhàn)，但是必須清楚自己努力的方向。也就是說，人一旦有了自知之明，也就沒有什么克服不了的困難，沒有什么過不去的難關(guān)。
要悟透自己就要欣賞自己。無論你是一棵參天大樹，還是一棵小草，無論你成為一座巍峨的高山，還是一塊小小的石頭，都是一種天然，都有自己存在的價(jià)值。只要你認(rèn)真地欣賞自己，你就會(huì)擁有一個(gè)真正的自我。只有自我欣賞才會(huì)有信心，一旦擁有了信心也就擁有了抵御一切逆境的動(dòng)力。
要悟透自己，就要心疼自己。在氣憤時(shí)心疼一下自己，找個(gè)僻靜處散散心，宣泄宣泄，不要讓那些無名之火傷身；憂傷時(shí)，要心疼一下自己，找三五個(gè)好友，訴說訴說，讓感情的陰天變晴；勞累時(shí)，你也要心疼一下自己，為自己來一番問寒問暖，要明白人所擁有的不過是一個(gè)血肉之軀，經(jīng)不住太多的風(fēng)刀霜?jiǎng)Γ挥胁r(shí)，你更要心疼一下自己，惟有對(duì)自己的心疼，才能獲得戰(zhàn)勝疾病的信心和力量。
悟透了自己，才能把握住自己，你的生活才會(huì)有滋有味！
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